Blind-sided

Ever been going along thinking all is well in your little world only to have someone project their own emotional vomit on you and make you re-think what you believe? If you have been following me for a while, you know that I believe the moody person(as well as the emotionally unstable, unforgiving, and/or bitter) controls the relationship.I hate when this happens.

I am secure and emotionally stable. I usually help people handle their business and get through their problems. Realizing that you can't help someone is often painful. Yet, God is in control and not only does He control every aspect of your life but theirs as well. So the next time you are blind-sided by some one's emotional BS, take a step back and pray for them. Don't fall prey to their emotional folly. Don't argue with them or try to reason it out, it probably isn't worth the time or the effort. Time heals all wounds but a person has to be willing to allow the healing or seek it. Ephesians 4:31-32 says it best, "Put aside all bitterness, losing your temper, anger, shouting, and slander, along with every other evil. Be kind, compassionate, and forgiving to each other, in the same way God forgave you in Christ."  That said, I wonder how you all handle these type of individuals? Gotta go, the beach is calling! Ciao!

Divaliciously yours, 

Pam